EN VOYAGE TO
copyright Michael Safdiah 1999 all rights reserved
The trip from Nice to
When I arrived the first thing I noticed was the Italians
themselves. The men, well I always look at men, certainly seemed so much more
relaxed. Relaxed inside their bodies, relaxed with the way they allowed
themselves to be revealed. They were sexual, and okay with it. I realized by
comparison to where I’d left, how up-tight a people the French can be.
The rent-car I had hoped for was (of course) not there, and I spoke
no Italian in order to convince anybody I had reserved it. So, welcome to
Italia! The little Fiat I got (not the convertible I requested) took me in
circles to even leave the airport. I swear airport roadways are designed by
retired frustrated rat-maze designers. I finally decided I had left the
airport, and had driven around half an hour looking for a sign to Pisa (I
wanted to see the tower) There were Alto Stradas, Super Stradas,
strada-stradas. I was totally lost in a strange land in a speeding car with
everyone beeping horns at me in Italian. I made a lot of turns out of
uncertainty, anxiety and the desire to not crash. You know, one beautiful thing
about being lost in
Well, then let it be
Bart had returned on a flight to New York via Paris, and I was in
There had been some bickering before we parted, but we always did
that. We loved one another and lovers do disagree sometimes. All in all it was
our first big trip anywhere together, except for the trip to Negril, which I
hated, because of the Danish-owned hotel we stayed at, where the dinner meals
were served at
It is a beautiful island,
We had just visited wealthy friends - the Sterlings -- they own the
Iron Horse Winery in
You wonder how you would ever climb there, but you manage it with
effort. The streets are narrow, cobbled, hilly and willy-nilly. Each few feet
one wanders unveils a new vista of the ancient world,
and of the mountains in the distance. I fell in love with it. It’s easy to see
why man has embraced this as a place of shelter, Their home, set into and
carved out of the rock which formed the hill, was very old, tiny, with small
furnishings yet it appeared modern because of the beautiful things in it.
A few hundred years ago there would have been a family of peasants
huddled against the ceaseless wintry Mistral wind around a fire inside this
stone shelter. instead of a modern French
Lunch with there was a feast of Mediterranean grilled vegetables,
and some light rosé wine. The meal was a dizzying array of colors, flavors, and
incredible serving dishes. Why I recall that brilliantly colored china
surprises me now. Deepest chrome yellows, rich blues, apricot
. All of Provençe was about intensity of color, it being so deeply baked
in the brilliant sunshine of the
It was all small talk at first, these were people whose business was
wine, and entertaining is a way of life for them. After the small talk we
really got down to some wonderful conversation, we were all young and Americans
in France, they were so gracious, and we’d visited their parents at their home
in the Russian River, so we had a rare and exciting lunch, lots of good wine
and laughter, and left to find our rooms for the night in Mougins, a nearby
town.
We stayed at Moulin de Mougins, the beautiful three-star inn owned
by one of my former maîtres, chef Roger Vergé. It is a
restaurant built into an ancient mill. It must be every cooks dream (certainly
mine) to have a place near a resort, with fragrant herb and flower gardens,
sunlight, and famous and rich guests in a place nestled in the hills
overlooking the
After dinner the first night, he visited our table. He graciously
welcomed me back, I mentioned that he had a dangerously dark tan, and made some
remark about pocketbooks, which we all laughed at. He didn’t laugh as loudly as
I’d have wished. It seems when food is not in my mouth, one will always find my
foot there. He looked so regal, with that deep Riviera tan and his white hair,
and I challenged my old mentor to cook us real Provençale food, ‘la Cuisine
Grandmère", instead of "la Cuisine des Trois Etoiles" so I could
show Bart what ‘old Provençe’ was like.
"you will have a table tomorrow, and I will
cook for you" he said in the matter of fact way a person does when he is
used to being obeyed. I was thrilled, and spent the entire day anticipating
dinner. I think we even smoked a little recreational pot before dinner, a
mistake now that I look back on it.
The first course was langoustes, sort of a
crayfish-lobster, but in a lemon-y garlic-y dressing, with a blend of olive and
walnut oils. He didn’t spare the fresh herbs, there were so many, the blend was
an indescribable, and exotic combination of thyme, rosemary and lavender
combined with some North African aromas. It was beyond French, I had to remind
myself that this little hill town was right on the French
The oversized plate was decorated with shellfish of all sorts. It
was a seafood still life. He was inspired by Bouillabaisse, there was also a
dish of that hot aioli sauce called Rouille always served with it. His was lighter,
brilliant, certainly easier to eat and colorful. I was able to taste colors. It
was three-star, and all Vergé, but I was looking for "old fashioned
cooking" - "Grandmère". I was certain he had directed this, but
hadn’t had much of a hand in its preparation.
The baby racks of lamb which followed were loaded with herbs, (wild
ones, and intense), and half a ton of roasted cloves of garlic. Of course there
were roasted baby vegetables, all shapes and colors, and they had taste too! I
recalled then that we have mini-vegs at home too, but they lacked taste. Oh,
and a few roasted potatoes that really tasted like potatoes. Not since Equador
had I tasted a real potato. Now the assault had begun. I was home, finally.
Here was a master at his intense best. He had abandoned his trademark ‘lighter’
approach to please the whim of a guest, little me. Here is where hospitality
and good food were married with humility.
There was an intense lamb pan juice, but it had been slightly
thickened, so it was more home style. It was deep and stayed with you while you
savored it, and again, you knew that garlic had been emphasized in your honor.
I think there was olive oil in it to enrich it. There was a light but fruity
local wine, just enough to enhance the food, and perfectly blend with it. Chef
selected it, and sent it to us with his compliments.
We were eating so quickly by then we weren’t paying much attention
to the details, we were a couple of pig-boys in love
with the food, the day and each other. Sad, now that I think
of it, but you either experience it or you intellectualize it. I ride a
bit of both when I dine out. My hedonist self goes for the big experience, and
later after a few bites, my reflective self comes on board. That meal I think I
just told my reflective self to take the night off. I realize now that I was
intended to that.
It was "Death by Garlic", and there was fragrant ice cream
made with Thyme for one of the endless selections of dessert. I hate it when
they do that - they kill you with so much great food, and then the cheese tray
comes, then sweets, and of course cookies, and you can’t escape the assault on
your liver; you don’t even want to. You just sit back in those oversized arm
chairs designed to give you that feeling that you own the world, (I don’t) and
you let it happen to you.
We were up late that night suffering the consequences of our
overindulging, not because of the food, which was great; it’s just that we
pigged out. No regrets.
I wondered if Bart had enjoyed the trip, I sure hoped so, it took
years of being lovers and then separating and finally coming together as
friends. The ‘friends’ part was the best. Whenever we were together after we
broke up, there was a peace, a quiet which enveloped the two of us. It was
always easy to spend time together, and the best part was that we didn’t need
to do a damn thing. We managed to salvage that and have it as long as we knew
one another.